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A Friend's House: Kind of Like a Ball Park/ Photo by Marianne Vecsey
Doctor, I think I’ve had a breakthrough.

I’ve actually taken two summer vacations of nearly a week long.

I’ve always been busy in the summer, working overseas at major events or schlepping off to the inane din of ball parks. My wife used to say, why don’t you be smart like Dave Anderson and take a whole month off and relax? (For that matter, editors and readers always asked why I couldn’t be more like Dave Anderson.)

Anyway, I thought I’d try it.

The first vacation to Cape Cod was a little scary because I kept getting reports of marauding sharks and infectious sea lions and wandering bears and skittish foxes.  

The second vacation began in western Massachusetts, where I did things like swim in a lake and watch ducks and kayakers glide past, and hang out with friends in a delightful home.

Sometimes we watched the clouds and the sky and the hills. Sometimes we talked about the Yankees or politics or thwarted hoop dreams.

Then my wife and I drove to central New York to visit my kid brother and his wife who are on the faculty at Colgate and live out in the country in an 1842 stone house. While the women went to an all-day antique fair in town, my brother and I picked vegetables in his garden and watched the farmer’s cows on the other side of the fence.

But the highlight of upstate was having time for two trips to Cooperstown, for the Glimmerglass Festival – a total revelation. I had always thought of it as an outdoor summery diversion, but in fact it is an indoor auditorium used only a few months a year with a very high level of performance and staging.

We sat in the third row for an old French opera, Armide, with a strong cast including a charming ballet corps, and on Monday we came back for Lost in the Stars, the pre-Mandela South African story of a tragedy striking black and white families.

From the third row, we were especially captivated by the bass, Eric Owens, and the tenor, Sean Panikker, two Pennsylvanians on their way up. After the performance, the principals came out in street clothes and answered questions from the audience.

Afterward, the four of us went out for home-made ice cream and zucchini bread on Route 20, and talked about making this excursion to Glimmerglass an annual event.

Then my wife and I drove back toward the city under a gathering storm, seeing more sky than we ever can around New York.

I know I am not saying anything profound here, Doctor, but I think I have proven the point that I can take a week away from cities, from work, and not go nuts.

Of course, now I am back in high gear – drawn back by the Lance Armstrong saga, getting ready for a few cameo gigs at the Open tennis in the next two weeks. Deadlines. Assignments. Anxiety. The dreaded R-word is taking its own well-deserved vacation. Still, this is progress, isn’t it, Doctor?

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Big Sky -- Upstate Version/ Photo by Marianne Vecsey
 


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Roy Edelsack
08/26/2012 1:02pm

GV- I'm hoping that part of your Open reporting this year will be to view it as a civilian rather than from the press box. I've attended at least one session of the US Championships/US Open every year since 1959 and have found there is a whole fan experience from the "cheap seats" that doesn't get covered. I'm thinking of the mad dash for shaded seats in the Grandstand; the unfairness of the "if you go to the bathroom you might not be let back in policy; the ridiculous scheduling that puts mismatches in an empty Ashe while the most competitive matches are overcrowded around the rest of the grounds; high tension in the food court over "saved" tables, and (my wife insists I include this) the surly, inefficient staff at the Ben and Jerry's stand.

Yet there is no place I'd rather be than at the Open for the first week.

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George Vecsey
08/26/2012 1:13pm

Nice to hear from you. I have a modest proposal (Grandstand prominent) in the Monday tennis section of the NYT, I think.
Plus a very happy bit of news that will be out on the NYT site at some point today, I think.
The Open officials say they put name players in the Stadium, which is true. But hip fans would rather watch something competitive on a smaller court. That doesn't happen at Wimbledon because Centre Court is so inviting, and Ashe doesn't come alive until the second week usually.
Surly is the middle name at the Open, in my home borough of Queens, all over NYC. It's part of our charm, I think. GV

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Andy Tansey
08/27/2012 11:46am

Mr. Vecsey, so how does all of this tie together? Okay, I'll try.

My wife and I met at Colgate. We occasionally studied there too. I was a frat boy, not necessarily my finest hour, but a lot of fun. (I never engaged in cow-tipping.) In that spirit, when Colgate more recently (and rightfully in my saner sense) restricted fraternity rights and ended up in a lawsuit with my house on constitutional (?) grounds, I playfully tried to poke fun at the administration in the context of our very modest participation in annual fundraising. Fast forward some more, to college applications by our second Stanner, accepted by 8 of 9 schools to which she applied, including the likes of Wellesley, Smith and Mount Holyoke. The ninth? Colgate! Was I too playful back when?

With other links to what we consider Western Massachusetts, the woman I met at Colgate and I were on a hike a few weeks ago on Mount Tom, across the Connecticut River from Mount Holyoke, now chosen and beloved in the family. One of our party heard a rustling and saw "something" in the bushes as the day was winding down. Well, that something has as in the manner of any urban legend now developed into, not one, but two bears. It seems that, since that incident, the other of our party hears more and more about bears and has been instructed to give the bear jokes a rest.

With all Stanners now alums and the two most recent emptying our nest this coming Labor Day weekend, we decided for one last outing on Friday. Having encountered a bear or two on Mount Tom, we tried to meet anyone named Tom at Bear Mountain. Good hike on the Major Welch Trail. Met a man in a Portugal jersey and chatted briefly about the Euros, that other guy named Ronaldo and Nani, who had a decent tournamnet.

Not quite at the R-word stage, but these forays to the outdoors ARE addictive. A relatively recent revelation to one living all his life on one block or another on western geographic Long Island (which includes Kings & Queens) is that we don't have to go too far to get someplace that is relatively spectacular for its unspoiled nature, by our standards. As a friend said recently, it's not too hard for us to change channels. I feel sorry for those who live in the Berkshires or Hamilton, NY - they really have to outdo themselves to get someplace special!

Back to the Berkshires, with all the Indian food to choose from in NYC and Nassau County, Bombay Bar and Grill on Route 20 in Lee is becoming our favorite, especially after a hike with the bears!

My compliments on a nice piece in the Times about Armstrong, as always demonstrating compassion for the human side and a level of personal involvement essential to any sporting interest.

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George Vecsey
08/27/2012 4:51pm

You can take the boy out of Briarwood, etc. My kid brother (not the Molloy brother) went to HS in Queens and college in Manhattan, and now he has a vegetable garden larger than our front yard growing up in Hollis. I get the shakes if I am too far from the Vietnamese place in Bayside or the Xi'an lamb bun in Flushing. Then again, my kid brother has a lovely French restaurant in a small town near him. Enjoy beautiful western Mass. GV

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08/30/2012 4:54pm

George

Vacationing in western Massachusetts and visiting the Glimmerglass Festival are excellent introductions to the world of retirement vacations. Among all the wonderful activities that are available, doing nothing and taking in the surroundings are among my favorites.

Andy-I cannot speak for Hamilton, NY, but your sorrow for those of us who live in the Berkshires fulltime is misguided. There is no shortage of special places to visit outside of the Berkshires, both in the US and around the world. Since Berkshire winters are long and cold, there are better places to be, particularly between late February and mid-March which is a very muddy month.

Your sympathies should be for those of us who do not travel during the in the summer season. The cultural activities are almost unlimited and people, after struggling through the winter, do not want to miss anything.

I owned a retail appliance store on Manhattan’s Upper Westside for forty years and rarely took a vacation during July and August because of the air conditioning season. Now that I’m retired late May, September and early October have been added to the forbidden travel months.

I cannot convince my wife that it is not heresy to leave for a week to ten days during the summer. I have wanted to go to a country music festival in North Carolina for over thirty years, but they are during the summer. Also, we travel to some countries during the wrong seasons.

We are taking our son and daughter with their families to Israel at the end of December and early January to celebrate a bunch of family milestones that occurred within the past two years. The grandchildren are 12, 13 and 14, which is a good age for travel. My wife and I have friends and relatives in Jerusalem, so we are staying longer than the others.

On the way home, we will spend a week in Paris since we were last there thirty years ago. January is not a good time to visit Paris, but I’d rather be cold there than in Hinsdale, MA. Alaska, Scotland and Scandinavia are high on our travel wish list, but it will probably also be in the wrong season.

So do not cry for us, including most of our friends, as the wounds are self-inflicted.

Anyway, thanks for your concerns.




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George Vecsey
08/31/2012 1:12pm

I just had this flashback, decades back. we borrowed a friend's ski house near Otis Ridge, Mass. Great times. We went back in April and I promised to dig up our friend's garden. Got eaten by black flies. Before I could wise up, I had 50 bites. Springtime for Black Flies. Still a lovely part of the world. GV

09/04/2012 5:48pm

George

Staying with friends is the best way to visit the Berkshires. You have the comfort of someone’s home and company and no pressure to get out of a small hotel or inn room. Also, you tend to go at a more leisurely pace.

All the cultural events and attractions are great, but most vacationers and/or weekend visitors from metropolitan areas can get that at home, although at a higher cost. The real treat of the Berkshires is going off-road into backwoods and forests. They begin not far from the main highways and go in all directions. We do that once the summer is over and our free time returns. Berkshire county is 30% open land with most of it preserved.

In all fairness to the rest of the country, the Berkshires do not have a monopoly on culture on beauty. Every region of the US has its wonders and must see sights.

The Berkshires’ uniqueness is its cultural density in a wonderfully scenic area.

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