My wife once flew over Istanbul and ever since then she has yearned to go there. Last week we did.

There are dozens of wonderful things to say about Turkey (and I probably will) but first I need to talk about the frustration for a soccer freak of looking down from a hotel window directly into a soccer stadium -- with no game going on.

Hundreds of ferries and freighters and tugs were moving up and down the Bosphorus as we stared into the beginnings of Asia, but in seven days and seven nights I never spotted a single person moving on the lush lawn of Beşiktaş, one of three Super-division teams in Turkey.

One Sunday there was an Istanbul derby at Fenerbahçe, a main rival, based across the Bosphorus, essentially on another continent.

As a foreigner, you could try going there, somebody advised me, but nobody from Beşiktaş is allowed to travel to Fenerbahçe, and nobody from Fenerbahçe is allowed to attend a match at Beşiktaş. The trip involved a 20-minute ferry ride and a 40-minute walk, but there was too much else to do in this amazing city of mosques and museums, ferries and restaurants, hills and water views. 

Soccer was in the news. Fenerbahçe was firing its star Brazilian, Alex, for unknown offenses. He had been there seven years, a long stay for any international import, but the owner wanted him gone, and now he was.

Soccer always makes friends. Turks reminded me that Brad Friedel, the durable American keeper, spent a formative time with Galatasaray, the other Istanbul powerhouse. I told Turkish fans how I had covered the 2002 World Cup, when Turkey made its best showing ever, finishing third. People nodded reverently when I praised the great act of sportsmanship, after beating the spirited Reds of South Korea, 3-2, in the consolation match, how the Turkish players invited the Koreans to take a victory lap with them.

But that was a long time ago. Now Turkey is in danger of not qualifying for the 2014 World Cup.

One day in the amazing Cappadocia Region (with its unique geological formations and cave dwellings) we were eating in the celebrated Old Greek House in Mustafapaşa, where the popular soap opera Asmali Konak was filmed.  Our guide, Gökhan Yaramis, a tall former college basketball player – and a Fenerbahçe man – was joined by his fellow guide Emre Ardik, a Trabzonspor man.

Gökhan and Emre are buddies, who once spent nearly 24 hours driving in a snowstorm to watch their teams in Trabzon, alongside the Black Sea.

“We want our cup!” Emre told me with passion. A year ago Fenerbahçe was implicated in a game-fixing scandal and was bounced from the Champions League. Sounds like Juventus, the perennial king of the 89th-minute penalty kick, amazing coincidences Sunday after Sunday, decade after decade.

Gökhan never argued. Apparently, the punishment stood on its own. He’s a great guy, an educated guide who could respectfully tell us the history of Christians who lived in caves to avoid the Romans, and could also tell us of the Muslim faith that reached the region centuries later. Later he invited us to his lovely apartment in a pleasant town, so we would know more about Turkish life.

Gökhan put on his yellow and navy blue vertical striped jersey – and displayed his matching yellow sneakers – his gamer outfit, for watching matches. On Tuesday he would watch the qualifying match on the huge screen in the town square, as Turkey would score first against Hungary, but then lose, 3-1. By that time, my wife and were flying home. There is so much to remember about Turkey; I will always check the soccer scores.

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Gökhan Yaramis in Fenerbahçe jersey, alongside his mom's painting/ George Vecsey
 


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10/23/2012 9:14pm

George

Soccer opens many doors in most countries around the world. I can image your conversations with Gokhan and Emre. Driving 24 hours in a snow storm to the Black Sea seems perfectly logical to me.

Our guide in 1993 expressed a great concern about the safety of traveling to eastern Turkey, so that might have been more of a worry than the snow.

We were in the bush of Zimbabwe, Botswana and Gambia in the spring of 2008. The interest in the 2010 Men’s World Cup and Obama’s presidential campaign was very high and a constant topic of interest.

It was unfortunate that you could not see a game from your window. We looked down upon a soccer stadium, it seemed as if from directly above, every time our can ride took us off the hill into town. It was always a wonderful sight, but one evening there was a Galatasaray game in progress. The green pitch was brightened by the stadium lights and the players got ever larger as we got lower. The remainder of the evening was anticlimactic.

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George Vecsey
10/24/2012 7:28am

Alan , nice to hear from you. I once made my wife go to a Uefa match in Prague literally right off the plane. (I had been there a few days.) It was fine...but this time I couldn't see putting a whole da's effort to get to the Fenerbahce match. Too much else to do in a great city. It is true, soccer does open up conversations around the world. Best, GV

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10/25/2012 10:59am

Wise decision!! Last year my whole family was in the Granada area and we were looking for a soccer match. There were away games on both Saturdays and we would have been traveling away from the areas we wanted to see.

I believe that our wives have the same non-sports DNA gene other than they are "good sports"

Once in Palermo, we could not find any cultural event so we went to a good restaurant for dinner. Being ever alert, we passed many stalls selling soccer related items as we went through a gate to the restaurant. There was a soccer stadium just before the restaurant, which I also did not see.

We heard a tremendous roar as we sat down to eat. The waited said that a match between Sicily and Sardinia had just started. I was surprised when my wife said that we should have gone to the game and eaten after. We even discussed eating later and going to the game, but it would have been difficult to get in at the last minute or even sold out. Sandi said that she would be willing to go to a soccer game in a foreign country.

We will be in Paris between January 6-13 and I'm searching for a game.

I almost changed my mind to go to the 100th Anniversary of the Lehigh-Lafayette soccer rivalry at the last minute. It would have been crazy to drive over nine hours round trip for the game and pre-game and post-game activities for Lehigh's soccer alumni. Since it was a 7 PM game, it would have meant staying over night.

If Sandi was a sports fan, I would have done it as it less than 24 hours in a snow storm.

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George Vecsey
10/26/2012 6:14pm

Alan, I know the feeling. We went out to dinner during the 1990 3rd place match . Placed our order, waited 45 minutes plus stoppage time for the first course. Entree arrived after the match. The waiters and chefs were watching. Of course.
GV

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